I once read in Linda Goodman's book that people with the sun sign-Aries tend to adopt people rather than befriend them.... Hmmmmm.... many many many years later methinks that I agree. The main problem in this scenario is that the person who gets adopted often doesn't realize that he has been adopted and then ensues a comedy of errors and often a tragedy of high proportions..... All this in because of expectations and no expectations I guess... So I think that it is best to go slow and not help people unless they ask for help, we should just watch people falling into holes and then rush forward only when they cry out aloud( aka Mahi..) .....Naaah! This is something that I have never done and will never do, I shall always warn the person that there is a pit before they fall in, and if the person feels that my warning just slowed them down, just too bad ya! Saw GOW yesterday and was so impressed, what a movie, too blasting good.... Also am two-thirds done with my c