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I am sorry, I am going to come across as terribly insensitive when I have said this but, what is all this fuss about? A celebrity was unable to cope with the pressures of the life he had chosen and gave up on living. I mean have you ever seen a rejected sportsperson commit suicide?
And the person in question here actually had a degree from a very prestigious institute and could have looked for another job, but he didn't.

 So my take on this is:

1- Nepotism is a fact in all walks of life.

2- A person who is suffering from Clinical Depression is a person who needs to be constantly monitored and a care-taker needs to be assigned, because patients of such depression always experiment with dosages and such. They also cease to take their medications.

3- Here it seems to have been the sister who was the designated care-taker, so why isn't she being questioned?

4- Also the doctor who was treating him said that SSR had discontinued his treatment. The correct protocol is to make sure that the patient is seeking help elsewhere and inform the care-taker. This also wasn't done.

5- Mahesh Bhatt's own daughter is suffering from Clinical Depression and with the family's support she is pulling on.

6- About Deepika's claims as to her own illness, I have doubts about the veracity of that.

7- See people like Catherine Zeta Jones, who have really done a lot for the management of this disease by sharing her own experience with the disease.

8- One of my best friends from childhood suffers from this and she is pulling along with the help of her loved ones.

9- For whatever reasons his family couldn't help him see this through. So why blame only one aspect of his life?

10- Also his own sister the one who was in the US had said that she was afraid he would do something like this.

So, maybe I have a hard heart, but I do know that when a person commits suicide it is because several things break and not just the one!
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